The Soul Chronicles: You Can't Bloom By Looking In Someone Else's Garden
- Celina Fato

- 2 hours ago
- 2 min read
The ultimate truth my friend is that we are all on our own unique distinct timeline & journey, but if we are constantly focusing on others to see what they're doing, achieving, receiving, then we are neglecting our own garden & hindering it to flourish into something beautiful, as we are too preoccupied comparing, but the truth of the matter is your garden was never meant to be the same as another.

When we choose to live in a constant state of comparison it leads to feelings of inadequacy, lesser than & disconnect, as we are constantly measuring our own progress by what we perceive as seemingly perfect lives in another. The sad thing is when we do this we are overlooking the unique beauty & potential of what we have the power to cultivate within our own garden. We are outsourcing our own personal power, energy, peace & that my friend is too expensive to trade.
The garden we choose to cultivate is a reflection of our values, passions & dreams. Each grows at its own pace, influenced by the seeds we decide to plant, the nutrients we provide & the environment in which we care & nurture it. Some bloom early while others may take time, thus reminding us that every single soul faces their own set of unique challenges, difficulties, quiet struggles, sacrifices, changes, life lessons, inevitable pain & losses, would you want all that to when you compare yourself to another?... Remembering that what may appear success for a person may not hold the same significance for another.
So, instead of measuring our worth against the achievements of others, we should focus on cultivating our own garden. This means investing time & energy into our personal growth, setting our own goals, & celebrating the small victories along the way. By doing so, we allow our unique qualities to shine through, creating a life that is fulfilling & authentic to who we are. Embracing our individual journey not only fosters self-acceptance but also encourages a deeper appreciation for the diverse paths that we are all on.
Ultimately, the beauty of life lies in its variety, & by tending to our own garden, we contribute to the vibrant tapestry of the human experience.
To end, i have come to a deep understanding that we are all UNIQUELY DIFFERENT & all have a UNIQUELY different journey to take… so my lovingly reminder to you as you walk your own path is that,
💜 YOU ARE RIGHT ON TIME
💜 YOUR NOT BEHIND
💜 YOUR EXACTLY WHERE YOU NEED TO BE
So, STOP comparing yourself to others, STOP outsourcing your personal power, peace & energy, tune inward & stay in your lane, focus on cultivating that garden of yours & watch how your life can change when you invest in it!
With The Deepest
Love & Light
🙏🏼💖✨



